Our tête-à-tête

Important point first

I know that we have the idea that, if someone call an escort, it’s not to play Scrabble. In fact, we can play Scrabble if you want, but generally people come to us for other things. It’s forgetting that we are not talking about an ordinary service but sexuality (and even then, in many services you have the option of saying no. Let’s say you decide to go bungee jumping, if in the end you don’t succeed, I doubt the person will push you off the bridge… well, I hope not, that would not make me laugh. Anyway)

I often have “under the sheets” encounters that don’t end up with sexuality. We talk, we have a massage or a cuddle but you don’t feel ready to go any further? It’s OK, really. I’m not taking it personally. It’s a question of sexuality, forcing you could have disastrous consequences. Maybe the next time we meet you’ll wantto go further, maybe you still won’t feel ready, or maybe you’ll just feel satisfied with massages and cuddles and sex won’t be on your mind. I’m fine with any situation, as long as you’re happy with me and you come out happy and relaxed.

I thought it was important to talk about this first because I get a lot of emails from people who aren’t sure they can meet me because they’re afraid of ‘disappointing’ me. I’m not in this activity for the performance aspect of sex. Here, as in my private life, I hate that kind of talk and I banish people who have that approach (especially as I generally get bored in bed with people like that, so it’s really not a loss, you see). I’ve written a long, long article on this subject HERE so if you’re ever thinking about these issues, I can only encourage you to read it. I offer different types of meeting, but you should know that if you want an ‘under the sheets’ encounter, you’re under no obligation to become intimate. If it happens, that’s cool and if it doesn’t, that’s cool too! And if you want a gentler approach, I also offer that HERE.

My services

Outfit

Most of the time I love wearing a dress with ankle boots (or sandals depending on the season) but I don’t have a femme fatale or glamour image, I prefer natural and practical. I can also come in jeans/tennis if you prefer! On the other hand, I have a nice collection of fine lingerie such as Lise Charmel or Aubade, so don’t hesitate to tell me what you like or, on the contrary, what doesn’t thrill you at all (and saying “You know, classic, what most men like!” is the wrong answer because not everyone likes thongs/stockings/suspenders, etc.).

I understand the desire to have a partner in front of you who stick to all the attributes of the sexy attitude: pumps, tight-fitting outfit, lipstick, varnish, etc. I need to be me and not feel disguised so that I can connect with you better and so that our time together goes as smoothly as possible.

If you’re very attached to your partner’s outfit, if you think that intimacy can only happen if she’s dressed like this or like that, that’s totally understandable, but it won’t be with me. I’ve got lots of wonderful colleagues for whom these codes are 100% natural, who don’t fall with 15cm heels and are incredibly sexy and dressed from morning to night, even when they go shopping.

Times and Places

How it goes?

I don’t have a script, every encounter is different, but there are a few things that are important to me.

I like to start with a conversation and a drink so we can break the ice and create a nice connection. It’s really important so as to create a bond and have more fun when we jump under the sheets. I generally need at least 45 minutes before considering a more intimate stage (it can be more if you feel the need or it can be less if we already know each other). Sometimes, I’ve had some men who have jumped on me just when I passed the door and I must admit that it blocked me: we have time and I need a moment of exchange to be comfortable with you. If you are too impatient with me when I’ve been here for 10 minutes, I assure you that I’ll carry out mechanical sex and I think it will spoil the entire date. How do you want a shared pleasure if you don’t allow me the time to get to know you? I am not a robot, let me have some time before we get undressed.

I like when this moment of exchange takes place at your home or in your hotel room and not in a bar, as it allows for more fluid discussions and a more natural approach. However, if you need to start the meeting in a public place like a bar, that’s perfectly possible. For meetings with lunch/dinner in a restaurant, I find it pleasant to have a moment before going to eat to get to know each other quietly.

How do you prepare for the meeting? What to plan?

What I’m going to say may seem weird but I like to discuss if we are going to eat something together or not. I’ll explain myself: if you want to see me from 7pm to 9pm and you don’t provide food, you have to tell me that so I can eat before I join you (I really hate being hungry, please don’t let me suffer). And if you spent all your day cooking delicious things for me, it would be really annoying if I arrived with a full stomach.

I’ve writen a long blog post in two parts, covering hair removal, smells, what to wear, what I like to eat, etc., which may answer some of your questions! It’s HERE and the english version is coming soon

What can you do to make sure it goes as smoothly as possible under the sheets?

While we are in bed, I find it really important to communicate. I don’t know you, I don’t know your preferences and what can be exciting for someone is not necessarily exciting for another (I have seen men being turned off by things that usually turn on other men). Don’t be shy, and share with me how your body reacts.

It’s also important that I share with you what I could like. But, please avoid everything that could be painful and do not be rough as it makes me tense (and it will stop any possibility to have pleasure with you). I like to imagine sex as rock’n’roll. I don’t know if you have ever done couple’s dance, but I have had some partners who spent time at the beginning to guide me. Once our bodies were connected, we could do other tricks or go faster. However, I have also had some of them who were not looking for a connection, they just threw me everywhere on the dance floor and I had to avoid people and walls..and the floor. Needless to say: I was not enjoying the moment, and most often, I quit after one dance. For me, in bed it’s the same: if you pin me up against the wall, the chances of hurting me are high. If you manipulate me like if I am a doll I’m not going to appreciate. If you try to push my legs into splits, I’ll just wait impatiently for the end of our date… I understand that, sometimes, excitation is too invasive and we get carried away, but do you really want me to stay with only a bad memory of our date? Personally, I prefer going back home with a nice smile on my face, thinking of our magical date rather than thinking about calling my osteopath as soon as I can, to fix my body.

I’m caring, natural and happy but if I find out that my limits and my well-being are not as important to you as they are to me, trust me, I am not going to force myself. I refuse to play, even if I’m paid. I’ve chosen you because you hit my heart and aroused my curiosity with your words and your universe. If you deceive me by behaving like a jerk, it will be easy for me to make you understand it.

Meeting in public

Some like to first meet me for a drink or meal to break the ice or just to have company.  Time spent together does not have to be in a bedroom. Going to the theatre, walk around the city, play golf… the sky is the limit! You can also have some ideas on the page “Overnights and long dates”

I must insist however that I refuse any physical displays of affection in public. I enjoy my private life and even though the city is big and beautiful there is always the possibility that either you or I may come across someone we know, and unwelcomed stress can be a complete put-off.

I do not feel comfortable accompanying you on business dinners or conferences, as I am not a very good actress, especially if you want to introduce me to your colleagues as your secretary or girlfriend, and certainly not if it is the first time you and I have met. Hyperventilation is guaranteed for me! I would rather like when our relation is just for the two of us. I don’t want to invent a life (I remember somebody who told me, “it’s gonna be easy” because he would introduce me as his personal interior designer… I really know NOTHING in design, I can’t even match colors and I have had the same couch for 12 years!). I also don’t want to talk to your colleagues, your family or your friends (even with a huge amount of champagne). But, when I’m at ease with somebody, when our relationship begins to be more intimate and friendly, when we know each other well, I can agree to be introduced as “a friend” to some of your other friends or if we come across someone you know.

I am not an exhibitionist; therefore, no acts will be performed outside of a bedroom. This is where I feel the most comfortable and I can completely let go.

After the meeting

I often forget to mention this at the end of my meetings, so I’ve decided to write it down in black and white: if after our meeting you feel the need to write to me to share your emotions, your questions, your feelings, etc., that’s perfectly possible. Whether our relationship is long-term or we meet just once, I think it’s important to leave this open. It’s not a question of playing “TripAdvisor-du-cul” but of exchanging thoughts so that I can know you better and see how to orientate our future meetings, how to adjust what I offer to be able to support you in the best possible way, etc.

It’s also to not leave you alone with emotions, pleasant or unpleasant, that can sometimes be difficult to share with those around you, as in the case of widowhood for example.

Please note: the reason I suggest this is because 1) the people I select don’t come for a simple “partie de jambes en l’air”, there are often issues that can bring various emotions during the meeting (and after) and 2) this is MY way of working. So, I’d ask you to not go annoying colleagues who don’t want to continue the relationship outside the meeting. Everyone has their own rules, their own way of doing things, and it’s important to respect that.

Toys

Although I do not accept anal on myself, I have no issues with using a strap on for you, I also don’t mind golden showers but only if I am giving them.

Meeting with couples or colleagues

As some of you may have noticed, the couples page and the duos page have been removed. I’m in the middle of questioning myself on this subject because I no longer want to meet people just to “fulfil a fantasy”. There’s nothing wrong with wanting this type of meeting, but as you’ve seen, I’m orienting my one-to-ones towards support in specific situations. I felt that the requests for these moments were no longer in line with what I wanted. Maybe it’ll come back in another form, or maybe not, we’ll see!

Duos are possible if we already know each other and if your desires match what I imagine for this type of appointment. But I always only work with Tellement Charline or Lilas Eck (or Sofia Fatale in Paris), I need to know my partner well to be at ease.